A little clarification please….
OK, i am in need of some clarification on a dating issue. Here is the scenario. You contact someone really nice, you talk to them (online or by phone) for a while then decide that you want to go on a date, in fact they claim to be way excited to meet you. Since it is sometimes hard to work around schedules and what not, a specific date is not set at this time. You have just stated that you want to go out and BOTH parties state this. Then while you are trying to find a time that works for both of you in the not too distant future, they email or call (or have a mutual friend call) and say “I have found someone that I really like. We just met yesterday but I really like them and we are dating now”. Well, we kinda had plans didn’t we? OMH, me thinks that is some serious rejection (well maybe not rejection cuz you never went out… but still). What is going on here? Is this normal behavior? Your thoughts are appreciated.
dating, phone call, relationship, rejection, work, schedules
March 1st, 2007 by: Steve
- Posted in Uncategorized
March 3rd, 2007 at 12:08 am
Sure it’s normal. Sometimes we, in a non-serious situation such as the one described above, find a different situation and we decide we want to explore it. The right thing to do at that point is to cancel other dates. You can’t keep that commitment if you are dating someone else exclusively, can you? Nope!